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Disturbing Dreams

I’ve been having some disturbing dreams recently. No, not THOSE kinds of dreams where people or monsters are chasing me, stuff like that. No, I’ve been dreaming a lot in SPANISH lately.

Dreaming in another language isn’t new to me. I remember the first time I had a dream in French. It woke me up! You know when you start dreaming in another language that it has become a part of you. It’s in your subconscious.

Those dreams in French were always appropriate, though. What I mean is that when I was speaking French it was always to French people who only spoke French. Naturally, even in my dreams, I’d have to talk to them in French or they wouldn’t be able to understand me, right?

Well, the thing with the Spanish dreams is that while they started in the same way, talking to my neighbors when they showed up in the dreams it had to be in Spanish so we’d understand each other. But the last few nights I’ve had dreams in Spanish where Spanish-speaking people I knew weren’t a part of the somniferous movie. Now THAT’S disturbing! I guess that’s what happens when you’ve been totally immersed for nearly four years in another language.

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It’s Different Here In Panama…

Back in 1991 when we moved Jolie Aire, the boat I was running, from France to Spain we moved from one culture to another. It’s a fact that the French are different from a lot of other countries, but I won’t get into the nuts and bolts of that here. But in Spain we ran into a lot of people who would go out of their way to help each other, and strangers, too. One of my French girlfriend’s favorite expressions when someone would help us with a problems was, “This wouldn’t happen in France.” My stock response was, “You’re right. This is the real world out here. People do things like this.”

One of the big complaints one hears from the expat community here is that customer service is non-existent in Panama. There’s a little bit of truth in that, though it’s not as pervasive as many would like you to think it is. Take this morning, for example. . .

I needed to go into David to pay my insurance bill at Hospital Chiriguí. I was 75 yards of so away from the bus stop when a bus passed my street. No big deal. I always leave the house with my iPod and rather enjoy sitting at the bus shelter listening to a book and watching the passing scene. There’d be another bus along in 20 minutes or so.

But then, at the edge of the tree line, the back of the bus appeared. The driver had spotted me as he passed. (They all know me now after two and a half years living here.) Not only did he back up the main road he then proceeded to turn, backwards, into my little street and back to where I was so I could catch a ride into town. I could hear Florence say, “This wouldn’t happen in France.” I replied, “I know, Florence, it wouldn’t happen in the States, either.” And the amazing thing is, folks, the driver did this for a 60 cent fare. No, it wouldn’t happen anywhere else I’ve ever lived but its happened to me several times here and I’ve seen it done for others, too, over the time I’ve been here. It’s what customer service is all about. It’s what Panama’s about.

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It’s Beginning To Look Like Christmas

It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas here in Boquerón. I haven’t been up to the park at the town hall this year to see if they’ve decorated things. It was pretty scanty last year but there were lots of decorations the previous two years.

Some of the houses here in the barrio have put up their Christmas lights…

Saturday night a group of youngsters from one of the local churches gathered at a neighbor’s house to sing Christmas Carols. You might recognize the song.

 

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Intelligence vs Smart

Sometimes it takes a bird brain to pull a post together.

For the past couple of weeks I’ve been mulling over an incident that got me to thinking about the difference between being smart and being intelligent.

What sparked that idea happened as I was walking to the bus stop one morning. A group of five or six little neighborhood kids, ages from four and a half to ten were playing. When they saw me they started yelling “Hello, hello, hello.” One of the few English words they know. Naturally I was saying “Hello, hello, hello” right back. We do this all the time. But the youngest of the group, my next door neighbor’s daughter, separated herself from the group and came over to me and said, “¿Cómo se dice, ‘adios’ en Inglés?” (“How do you say ‘goodbye’ in English?”)

That impressed me. It was a leap of intellectual curiosity that the others didn’t have. She knows what “hello” means and how it relates to an event but she wanted to extend her knowledge beyond that. A person has to have some level of “smartness” to be able to pick up another language. It takes “intelligence” to delve into how it all works.

But that’s a single, isolated incident. What really brought the theme together happened this morning with a rufus-tailed hummingbird.

I took this video of a rufus-tailed hummingbird when I was house-sitting in Potrerillos Arriba…

 

I was sitting in my rocking chair on the front porch enjoying my morning cup of locally-grown coffee when the hummingbird stationed itself less than three feet in front of me clicking away in humingbirdese. It stayed like that for at least half a minute and flew off. A few minutes later it repeated its performance. It took me a while to figure out why it was doing this. Then I looked up at the hummingbird feeder that hangs nearby. It was empty.

Now, the bird knows that the little flowers on the feeder aren’t real. That’s smart. Knowing it’s empty is smart. Knowing that I’m the one who mixes up the juice for the feeder is intelligence! Hovering in front of me and making a racket so I’d notice that the feeder needed to be refilled is also intelligence. It’s thinking “outside the box.”

Just because something can’t talk doesn’t mean it’s stupid.

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What’s Written On Your Dash?

The one inescapable reality of life is that sooner or later everyone dies. Simple as that. Nobody gets out of here alive.

I was in the first graduating class of Nauset Regional High School. Class of 1960 which, strangely enough, consisted of 60 students. There are fewer of us now than there were on graduation day.

A group of Nauset alumni started a Facebook group called, “Nauset Remembers.” Part of it is a list of those no longer with us. Recently a group organized, for lack of a better word, a Remembrance night at the school. Not a memorial service, but more of a celebration of those who have preceded us into the great unknown.

Through that page I’ve been in contact with an old classmate, Jay Schofield. Jay has a blog and wandering through it he had a post of a eulogy he gave for a mutual friend, Bruce MacPherson. Jay wrote that when Bruce was inducted into the Massachusetts Football Coach’s Hall of Fame the theme of his induction speech was “The Dash.”

The dash he spoke of is placed on all gravestones and positioned between the date of birth and the date of death. Something like this…

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Bruce questioned what people did with their dash — their time alive. Was it wasted or was it used to good purpose?

What will be written on your dash?

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It’s All Cool – Tranquilo Time

Just because they can’t talk doesn’t mean animals are stupid. They know when things are cool.

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The horse belongs to a family around the corner. They tie her up in various places around the neighborhood so she can graze on the grass. In the past two years I’ve never seen her lying down anywhere. But she must have felt that it was safe to take a load off for a while in my yard.

The dog came limping into my yard about a year ago with a broken leg. Nobody in the neighborhood had ever seen her before. Naturally I took her to the vet to get her taken care of, and I bought a large bag of dog food at PriceSmart (Panama’s answer to Costco). Of course, once you feed them they’re yours. They don’t leave. But she’s cool. Laid back. Doesn’t bother anyone. She also loves the horse, and when the young man who takes care of her rides her around, the dog loves to lope along with them. I also took the dog to one of the spay/neuter clinics that are held around the area. Panama doesn’t need any more unwanted puppies.

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Huge WHEW!

When you become a legal resident of Panama you receive what is known as a “carnet.” It is an official state-issued identification card complete with an unrecognizable photo of yourself.  Actually there are two kinds of state-issued i.d.s. One is called a “cedula.” That’s what citizens have. It resembles a driver’s license in that it is a solid piece of plastic whereas the “carnet” is a cheesy card sadly laminated in cheap plastic. A cedula is permanent while the carnet is tied to your passport number. That means when you get a new passport you have to change your carnet so the numbers match. It recently became possible for extranjeros (expatsto obtain a cedula and avoid having to change things when you get a new passport, but since it will be seven more years until I have to worry about that I 1) don’t know if I’ll even be around in seven more years and 2) I don’t want to spend the several hundred dollars and the jumping through hoops I’d have to go through to get my carnet changed into a cedula.

There are several things that having either a cedula or a carnet does for expats. If you fly into Tocumen airport, PTY in airlinese, with your card and your passport you can enter the country in the much shorter “residents” line instead of the “tourist” line. About an hour east of David there is an Immigration check point and if you’re driving or taking a bus you have to show your i.d. there. Citizens show their cedulas, expats show their carnets. Everybody else has to produce a passport.

You also have to show your carnet do get the numerous generous discounts that are offered to old farts like me. Discount for things like bus and airline tickets, hotels are supposed to give you a discount, and of course restaurants are required to do that too. The most important, and the time I use it most, is for discounts on medicines.

Yesterday, when I went to do my grocery shopping, I pulled out my billfold to present the cashier my “Puntos d’Oro” card. That’s “Gold Points,” sort of like computerized green stamps, and when you accumulate enough “puntos” you can redeem them for “valuable prizes” as they say. As I was digging for my blue “Puntos” card I instantly noticed that my carnet was missing. Shit! GeeZUSS!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

I had no idea what could have happened to it. I tried to remember when I had it out of my wallet the last time. The only thing I could remember was early last month I got on the bus to Rio Serreno on one of those “let’s see where this ends up” bus rides I take from time to time. It was a two hour ride way up into the mountains to a dirtbag little border crossing town on the Costa Rican border. I had to take it out to show the driver so I could get my “jubilado” discount. But I was sure I’d put it back in its place.

I searched all over the house even though I would have absolutely no reason to take it out of its resting place. All I could think of was what a hassle it was going to be having to go to Immigration to straighten things out. I don’t know how computerized they are yet, but since you can only obtain a Panamanian driver’s license if you’re a legal resident I could show the people at the David office that I was, in fact, legal. Of course there was also the dreaded thought that I might have to travel all the way to Panama City to resolve the situation.

Then, as so often happens, just as I was drifting off to sleep, I remembered that a little more than a week earlier I had been to Arrocha to get my blood pressure meds. Surely I must have taken it out then to show the cashier. Hadn’t I? Could I possibly have left it there? There was always the hope, and hope springs eternal.

So, this morning I got up, scrapped the stubble off my face on the chance that I might have to visit Immigration and get a photo taken and took the two requisite buses to the Paza Terronal where Arrocha is located. For a change there wasn’t a line at the pharmacy counter. I told the cashier that I had lost my carnet and explained that I thought I might have left it there. All in Spanish, of course. The chief pharmacist lady, hearing me talking to the cashier, glanced at me and proceeded to the back of the stacks of drugs. There, attached to a shelf by a clothes pin, hung my carnet. HUGE WHEW!!! Immigration showdown averted. I bought my next month’s supply of Zestril and asked the cashier if she wanted to see my carnet. With a big grin she said, and I translate, here, “No. That won’t be necessary today.”

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Little Town’s Big Weekend

To say that Boquerón is a small town is almost an understatement.

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Some 1,200 people live here. About the same as lived in Orleans, Mass., where I grew up on Cape Cod, but Orleans was much “bigger” in some respects than Boquerón. Orleans was the shopping center for what is known as the “Lower Cape.”  People bought their groceries at the First National or the A&P, did their drinking at the Land Ho, the Orleans Inn or the Packet Landing Inn. If you got sick you went to Dr. Burk (his entire phone number was the numeral 6, though all you had to do was tell the operator you wanted to talk to him and you’d be connected) and you took his prescription to Livingston’s Pharmacy. There was Snow’s and the Smith Brothers for your hardware needs and Nickerson Lumber for the things you needed to build with. There was a bank and a savings and loan, three churches, several real restaurants, the Catholic grammar school, the public grade school and the high school for kids from Brewster, Orleans, Eastham and Wellfleet. We even had a movie theater and “summer stock” theater in town.

Boquerón’s not like that. At ALL. There aren’t any grocery stores. There are two “Chinos” that are like Seven Elevens in the States where you can pick up a limited supply of food staples, a few hardware odds and ends to tide you over until your next visit to David or Bugaba. There are also several “Tiendas” which offer an even smaller selection of goods. They’re building a Banco National office which will be the first in town. You can get something to eat at a couple of “fondas” which are unregulated eateries where you can get a lunch plate meal for three dollars or less including a soft drink. If you want a beer with your meal and go to Las dos Katherines you can buy one at the Chinos next door. There’s one grammar school, and one bar that you really don’t want to go into for a drink. There’s a Catholic Church, a Kingdom Hall and two other evangelical churches in Boquerón.

Downtown Boquerón is the Palacio Municipal, a covered basketball court and the town park with benches to sit on and a bandstand. Almost exactly three years ago I wrote this post about the town. https://onemoregoodadventure.com/2010/10/18/a-quick-peek-at-boqueron/

This past weekend the little town of Boquerón held a BIG celebration. It’s called a Festival Patronales. My good friend Omar in Panama City who writes the wonderful blog, http://epiac1216.wordpress.com/  tells me, ”

“Fiestas patronales or festival patronal are celebration held in towns, cities and hamlets celebrating the day of different saints or figures of the Roman Catholic Church.  For example, Bugaba celebrates “La Feria de la Candelaria”, and David celebrates la “Feria de San José”.  Both are celebrations of the church’s saints.
“Almost every town in Panama celebrates a day in the name of a saint, also called “el patrón” of the town.  I don’t recall what is the name of the patron of Boquerón.  I’m sure there must be one.”
I believe the one here in Boquerón is named for San Miguel. It was a three-day event starting on Friday with the coronation of the “Queen” or “La Reina” of the festival. I didn’t know what the Friday schedule was since it’s a work day, and it started raining in the early afternoon and continued on into the evening, so I didn’t go. I know from a banner about the festival down at El Cruce that there was going to be “Discoteca” music up at the town center. And there WAS. So loud that I could easily hear it at home nearly three quarters of a mile away, and it lasted until almost 1 a.m. Saturday morning.
Saturday started off gloomy and stayed that way with light rain showers throughout the morning and early afternoon. No big surprise since it IS the rainy season. In mid afternoon I caught a cab and went up to the town park. There were horses everywhere.
For my geographically-challenged readers, Panama is a long, narrow country that runs EAST AND WEST, not north and south as many people think. Chiriquí Province where I live is the western-most province, and like the wild west of the States, this is cattle country so there are real cowboys (and girls) here. Not only that, horses are STILL a form of transportation in rural Panama. What was going on was what is known as a “Cabalgata.” Officially it’s a horse parade. Actually it’s a chance for horsemen/women to get together and drink beer as they ride their horses.
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IMG_0379The young man in the gray shirt behind the couple is a neighbor of mine.
Several women in a pickup truck passed out small plastic bags filled with “dulces” to people along the route. Try THAT in the States.
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And if you ran out of beer, a quick stop at the Chinos would solve that problem.
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A couple standing near me with their children offered me one of the bags of sweets they’d gotten from the ladies in the truck. I declined, not that I was afraid there was anything wrong with it, but their kids had ravaged their packages almost instantly and I said to give it to them. They told me that Sunday’s events would feature a big parade with bands from around the area. They said it would start at 9 a.m. I said, “is that regular time or Panamanian time? If it’s Panamanian time that means probably 10 or 11, but most likely noon.” They laughed and said it would definitely be Panamanian time.
Sunday morning broke to sunshine and blue skies. I headed out for town about 9:30. I waited at the bus stop for an hour and a half trying to get a ride up the hill. Every taxi coming up from El Cruce was jam packed. Buses from all over headed up towards town filled with kids and their drums and instruments. The one Boquerón bus headed that way was packed like a can of sardines and didn’t even try to stop. In my time at the bus stop it started clouding up and there was one, brief, shower. I could hear drumming going on in the distance.
If there was any way I was going to see this thing I’d have to walk. Now, that’s not so easy for me. I have emphysema and from the bus stop to the town park is the equivalent of walking up the stairs of a ten story building. Hell, I didn’t even do THAT when I was younger and in good shape! So, I plugged into my iPod and started the slog upwards. About a third of the way up it started to rain again so I sought shelter beneath a large mango tree and rested, dry, for the fifteen minutes the rain lasted. Two thirds of the way up, just short of the Chinos it started raining again. A bit harder this time and lasting for almost a half hour before letting up. All along the way people had parked their cars and pickup trucks along the side of the road, set up chairs and tables and dipped into their coolers for soft drinks, beer and snacks. Just like along St. Charles Avenue on  Mardi Gras Day.
I got up to the park, eventually, and it was crowded. I found a bench near the street, wiped off the rain water that had collected there and then pulled out a plastic garbage bag from my back pack (never leave home without it) and sat to watch the passing scene.
At noon the beginning of the parade approached the park, led off by the Queen of the Festival.
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Then came the marchers.
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IMG_0386The Bomberos (Fire Department) Band from Bugaba
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IMG_0391The first of the many schools participating
IMG_0392There’s always a tribute to Panamanian culture, the Pollera
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IMG_0393The fight against breast cancer knows no national boundaries
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Of course no celebration would be complete without someone overdoing it and passing out in public.
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What would a festival be without plenty of food?
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In the Palacio Municipal parking lot a small collection of children’s rides were set up though I didn’t take any pictures of them. Most looked as though they’d been purchased fourth- or fifth-hand from carnivals in the States.
Then the parade was over I headed back down the hill as it was seriously clouding up. It started raining, hard, about a half hour after I got home and it continued well into darkness though I could hear the disco music and drumming until close to midnight.

 

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Cost of Living in Panama

One of the most often asked questions on forums about living in Panama is “How much does it cost to live there?” It’s sort of like asking, “How much does a car cost?” My answer to the cost of living question is always, “How much you got?”

But it IS less expensive for me to live here. Compared to what I was paying to share a duplex in Fort Lauderdale each month allows me to live here in Boquerón for more than THREE months.

Another savings is in electrical costs. Now, granted, the stove there in the States was electric (which I hated) and here I cook with gas ($5.50 for a 20 lb. bottle that lasts me three months or so). My electric bill in Fort Lauderdale always ran about $125/month. Yesterday (Sept. 24th) I got my electric bill for the month of August. It was for $8.91!

I LOVE it here.

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Could Be…

What if soy milk is just regular milk introducing itself in Spanish?

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